I must admit that I have an issue with the "no birthday celebration" bit. However, I continue to make my own personal ritual to mark my birthday, and many others I know do the same. I hear of families going very discreetly out to dinner with their loved ones, or even going as far as giving them gifts right on their birthday. I mean, what's the big deal?!
I truly in my heart of hearts don't for a second believe the Almighty is really offended about a brief moment of rejoycing for being born into this wonderful life!
This and the allowing young children (anyone under the age of 17) to get baptized really upsets me!
It's just me, though. The attitude really may due me in if it's broadly known by my JW peers that sweat the small stuff.
DY